Investigating Love Spells

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Because of this lovely celebration, February has become a month surrounded with everything that reminds one of love. Everywhere one goes, they will see subtle reminders of love. Every store or website is covered with red and pink hearts, including sales targeted on items to gift to a friend or lover. While February is known as a month of love, not everyone gets to enjoy that experience. Many people face that dreaded single Valentine’s day. Valentine’s day reminds people just how loved or, on the contrary, how lonely their life may be. Because of this, some are enticed with the notion of love spells.

How do love spells really work?

Love spells should be based on intention. Successful love spells will form from intentions such as “I attract love to my life” or “I attract a supportive and loving partner”. This intention setting helps establish an energy intention. It is as if you are putting an ISO out into the universe searching to attract the love you desire. There are different forms of love spells that you can practice using. I prefer candle spells, because of my connection to the fire element. However, you may also utilize jar spells, moon magic spells, simmer pot spells, word spells, and other forms of magic. Just remember that the intention is key when setting any form of spell.

3 Misconceptions behind a Love Spells

  1. Forcing someone’s feelings

    • Whenever a movie or book presents love spells, the story’s main character is attempting to alter the perception of a character’s person of interest to fit their own needs and desires. This presentation of love spells is inaccurate. Forcing someone to love you or altering their perceptions takes away their ability of free will. This improper representation is what prevents people for believing or utilizing the power of a love spell.

  2. When finding love using a spell, the love is not real.

    • Because love spells are used to force someone’s feelings or take away their free will, there is no reason to believe that the love you find from a love spell is not true. Using a love spell to attract love does just that. Whatever your intention spell attracts will be an honest a true love, however, be aware it might not be exactly what you expected.

  3. Changing one’s personality

    • In life there are always positives and negatives. This balance of nature is what keeps the karmic cycle flowing. Because of this, no matter the person you fall in love with, there will always be negative attributes that challenge your relationship. A love spell intended to change a person’s personality or beliefs to fit your desires will not be successful.

Love spells can attract many forms of love to your life.

All spells are challenging because you have to be exact in your intention. Remember that love comes when you least expect it, even when you have casted a love spell. This is not an immediate fix. It will not find you the perfect, no faults, partner. You must be realistic with you expectations of a love spell. This process is about attracting love to you. Be open to the forms of love that will come your way. Love may not be a the movie meet-cute, but rather something more wholesome. Your intentions will attract the love that you seek, so focus on seeking the correct intention. Be clear and mindful of the aspects you seek in your partner.

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